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  1. ourladyofpopularculture:

    ‘I Am Divine’ is a soon to be released documentary about the one and only Divine!

    By the looks of this trailer, it looks like it’s gonna be fucking amazing.  I fucking love Divine and am happy to see her treated with respect.

    (Source: stalepopcornau.blogspot.com)

     
     
  2. Is there such things as a gender queer femme? I have trouble reconciling the fact that I identify as gender queer BUT I wear dresses and makeup often ( I am female bodied). Thoughts. Hope this gets rid of your boredom!
    asked by Anonymous
    answer:

    First and foremost, if someone can add to this response or correct me, I’d really appreciate it.  I’m not genderqueer so I don’t feel 100% comfortable answering with miseducation and misinformation!* 

    YES, I believe there is such a thing as GENDERQUEER FEMME.  Gender as a whole is very complex. And because it is complex, it is best figured out with our own introspection and with the support of fellow transfolk.  It can become confusing, as i have found myself with inner conflicts in the past. With gender, we deal with:

    1. what we are assigned at birth,

    2. what we as individuals identify ourselves as,

    3. and what others perceive us to be. 

    And all of those things may not align, making everything much more complicated and scary to figure out.

    What i understand about genderqueer from friends and youth i worked with is that GQ is a gender identity that does not coincide with the gender/sex-binary(man/male-woman/female) and is not gender-normative (abiding with pre-prescribed lifestyle norms based on what sex/gender someone is assigned at birth).  GQ folk may identify as both man and woman, neither man nor woman, a third/separate gender of man and woman. GQ, in some circumstances, may also end up blurring the lines between gender identity and the orientation of ones sexuality. Some GQ folks strongly identify as transgender because transitioning socially, hormonally, surgically, and/or legally is essential to the persons well being. I say well being because when one is not comfortable in ones own body, that conflict can be the root of a persons unhappiness.

    Being of the transgender umbrella does not necessarily mean that one has to transition, but for the survival of many, it is a necessity to transition. It has become a trend that many people appropriate identities, including gender identities. We must be conscious between the differences of admiration and identifying with something. I hope I was helpful.

    Devin

    P.S.  A message from a fellow tumblr-blogger: There is most definitely such thing as a female assigned at birth genderqueer femme, I know lots of people that identify that way! There is nothing inherently female about dresses, make-up, heels, or femininity.

    A message from another blogger: oh, hai! I was parusing your blog and thought i’d offer some help with your recent anon ask about faab genderqueer femmes. I’m a co-admin for Fuck Yeah, Trans* Femmes, and we get a lot of faab genderqueer/nonbinary femme submissions. Does that help?

    Thanks for your help: zerofailure: , criploveandneutronstars and cloveflowers

     
     
  3. In Response to my Trans Umbrella Post: What is the difference between “Transgender” and the “Transgender Umbrella”?

    I’d like to start off by saying that I am in no way a professional on Trans-issues and am not claiming that I am correct… I am open to commentary and imput. I am a two-spirit (androgynous person of indigenous descent) and am going with what I have read, been taught and have learned in a queer, trans and academic level.  I am open to conversation, but please, respect is highly valued.

    I have sensed tension in regards to the past transgender umbrella photo I posed and some folks who have stated strong disapproval to it for countless amounts of reasons.  With no intentions of being the “know all, say all” individual with trans-issues, as many have been sneering to be, I thought I should make a follow up post to clarify my reasons for posting this picture (http://radicalqueerbrownboy.tumblr.com/post/3244641404/the-best-transgender-umbrella-ive-seen-yet#notes). 

    The way I best understood what transgender was, was by knowing the definition of transphobia.  Transphobia is fear of or prejudice against people who don’t fit society’s rigid gender expectations. It is bigotry against gender variant little kids and transgender youth and adults. It leads to some of the most blatant discrimination and virulent hate crimes in the world today.

    For starters, there has been political tension between the identities that fall under the “transgender umbrella” for some time now.  Many white transgender folks of middle and upper social classes knocked on working class and low-income transfolks (often times who were of color) for not being able to financially fund their transitioning essentially not accepting them as trans.  Many transfolks have rejected those who choose not to follow through with SRS.  There are some transpeople who ridicule other transfolks for not being “passable enough” which transcends to not being accepted.

    What knowledge I was trained with when I facilitated Transphobia Workshops and when I ran a Transgender Youth Group at my former workplace is that TRANSGENDER posses two definitions

    1. the general definition is for introductory information and
    2. the umbrella term is to define the broader spectrum of transgenderism

    Transgender (in the basic/general definition) is when a person’s mind (gender) does not match their body (sex).  As a result of this, individual people’s life circumstances may or may not determine if transitioning to make their mind and body or gender and sex match is an option.

    The Transgender Umbrella term covers all individuals who don’t fit society’s rigid gender expectations.  This includes anyone who shakes the core, the foundation, the standards constructed meaning cismale=masculine and cisfemale=feminine by bending the rules, smashing the comfort, crossing expectations, mixmatching social roles and blurring perceptions. For that reason, anyone who identifies with any of the words listed (and not listed) into the “umbrella term” because they CHALLENGE the status quo are attacking the binary and its foundation. What is key is that one must identify as trans to be considered a part of the transgender umbrella and have an identity that coincides with its principles.

    Those who are excluded from the transgender umbrella are folks who are: 1. biological folks who are AMAB (assigned males at birth) who identify as men and are masculine, and 2. biological folks who are AFAB (assigned females at birth) who identify as women and are feminine.  We call those experiences cisgender, or cismen, ciswomen cispersons, cispeople and so on.

    Each culture has it’s standards of what a cismale and cisfemale is, and each culture also has developed an “other” for folks who don’t fit in either box. The importance of recognizing and understanding transgender identities from other cultures is not claiming identities from a culture that is foreign to yours.  Many people, forget about privilege, objectification and appropriation.  A white transwoman can not and should never call herself a hijra or two-spirit… Why?  Because she is not South Asian or Indigenous.  Claiming such identities would be like claiming the identity black, latino or indigenous without being… BLACK, LATINO or INDIGENOUS. 

    One thing must be clear… not everyone of the transgender umbrella is transsexual.  Because of that, some folks are more privileged than others within the umbrella.  Yes, feminine cismen, masculine ciswomen, crossdressers, transvestites, androgynous and genderqueer folks defy what is socially acceptable to the binary, but there is a very clear privilege these groups posses.  The privilege to hide their gender expression, “tone-down” their expression (not that they should, but they could), or not even appear to be within the umbrella because they can “take it all off” (such as Drag Queens, Drag Kings and Transvestites).

    I heard quite a few folks state… “intersex isn’t transgender”.  From what i have learned, Intersex folks fall under the transgender umbrella because they automatically are made the “other” in our gender binary.  That makes for very unique experiences regarding gender, gender identity, gender expression and social acceptance.

    All in all in regards to what i have learned, Transgender itself is so broad a term that includes a large variety of experiences, people and ethnicities.  Knowing boundaries that respect specific identities so not to appropriate, disrespect or colonize an identity is key in knowing transgender as an umbrella term, and respecting anothers culture. 

    Oh! and P.S. - Me saying that this is “The best Transgender Umbrella I’ve seen yet” does not necessarily mean that I am completely content with this umbrella drawing, but more so that I am happy that it does cover more than other umbrellas I’ve seen.  Transgender activism is ULTRA euro-centric, and I think that including more than just Genderqueer, androgynous, genderfuck and bigender becomes kinda annoying.  IM DONE! :)

     
     
  4. The best Transgender Umbrella I’ve seen yet.
www.thegenderbook.com

    The best Transgender Umbrella I’ve seen yet.

    www.thegenderbook.com

     
     
  5. realgay:

    There is also the “1st Timer’s Guide to Playing with Trans Guys” (download PDF)

    genderqueer:

    xxboy:

    Gay Sex with Transgender Men Part 1 (via sillyyetsuccinct)

    An introduction to sex with gay female to male transsexuals for cisgender (non-trans) gay men. What is an F2M? How can they be gay? What is their anatomy like? What’s the sex like?

    I love it when he breaks out the diagrams :D

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  6. culturalsociology:

                                            

     

    Quo Rum (Queers Organizing for Radical Unity and Mobilization) is holding its first annual forum in a couple of weeks.  Quo Rum ”is a network of radical queers and queer collectives in New York City.  We believe in community building, resource sharing, economic justice, and collective liberation.  Our projects are free, collaborative, consensus based, and fun!”  I will be giving a version of the talk I gave on campus concerning feminism and veganism.  The forum is a local activist / fun event / skillshare that will cover a wide range of interesting topics.  

     
     
  7. shaananigans:

    Why do gay trans men come out as lesbians before coming out as trans, if they like boys?

    While I feel as though this “switch” is something one must experience to fully comprehend, I have tried to explain the phenomenon in the best and least complex way possible. If it brings…

     
     
  8. I’ve been having conversations with some folks as of lately about transgender and it’s complexity as it means more than just transgender/transsexual.  Many can’t grasp the concept that transgender is an UMBRELLA TERM and that the people that fall within the term can express their gender and it’s discourse in many different ways.  Gender itself is completely a whole field that has endless different ways of developing.  This umbrella is a start but it also leaves out several identities, including mine - Two-spirit. 

Next time you hear transgender tossed around, think about how general of a description that may be and talk about transgender being MORE than just transsexual. 

    I’ve been having conversations with some folks as of lately about transgender and it’s complexity as it means more than just transgender/transsexual.  Many can’t grasp the concept that transgender is an UMBRELLA TERM and that the people that fall within the term can express their gender and it’s discourse in many different ways.  Gender itself is completely a whole field that has endless different ways of developing.  This umbrella is a start but it also leaves out several identities, including mine - Two-spirit. 

    Next time you hear transgender tossed around, think about how general of a description that may be and talk about transgender being MORE than just transsexual.